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B'nei Mitzvah

Having a B'nei Mitzvah is an experience in community. It is a statement that one is now ready to participate in the Jewish community as an adult. Havurah Shalom is built upon the active participation of all its members. We believe in passing on Jewish tradition to our children while continuing to learn ourselves.

In order to be true to these beliefs, the congregation requires timely active membership prior to this important family life cycle passage of is B’nei Mitzvah. A period of membership provides the opportunity for new member families to become part of the Havurah community so their child comes of age in an ongoing community and the family is held in this life passage.

Though this may delay the bar or bat mitzvah until the young person is in his or her mid-teens, we believe it takes a foundation of time in order to build strong community ties and create significant relationships. A B'nei Mitzvah is a significant event in the life of a young person. Religiously, B'nei Mitzvah are responsible for their moral actions. They also take their place of responsibility in the Jewish community by participating in Shabbat Services.

B’nei Mitzvah Workshops for 2020

B’nei Mitzvah: Beginning the Journey/Date Selection
Sunday, Feb. 23, 10am-12pm
This workshop for parents intends to launch families on the b’nei mitzvah journey. We will focus on the rite of passage itself, then families will learn about the date selection process. Led by Rabbi Benjamin, Deborah Eisenbach-Budner and the B’nei Mitzvah Committee.

Whose B'nei Mitzvah Is It Anyway?
Saturday, April 25, 3pm-4:30pm
Parents explore the hopes and fears that inspire, inform and complicate the planning process. Led by Deborah Eisenbach-Budner and Laura Orgel, psychologist and child/family therapist.

Please check our online calendar to confirm the above dates and times.

Resources

Saturday Morning

Who Should I Contact?

Membership

Brad Pector, Communications & Membership Coordinator, brad@havurahshalom.org

B'nei Mitzvah Date Selection or Changes

Amanda Coffey & Constance Plager, B'nei Mitzvah Committee co-chairs

Tutors & Musicians

Rabbi Benjamin Barnett, benjamin.barnett@havurahshalom.org

Facility Use & Logistics

Rachel Pollak, Facilities & Office Manager, rachel@havurahshalom.org

Mitzvah Project

Laura Orgel, B'nei Mitzvah Committee member

Questions Related to Family Dynamics & Learning Needs

Deborah Eisenbach-Budner, Education Director, deborah@havurahshalom.org
Rabbi Benjamin Barnett, benjamin.barnett@havurahshalom.org

B'nei Mitzvah Schedule 2020


April 4, 2020 - Saul Drucker

April 25, 2020 - Quinton and Abrianna Decker

May 2, 2020 - Gautam Josse

May 23, 2020 - Orion Segal

June 20, 2020 - Sophie Reilly


June 27, 2020 - Jonathan Williams

July 11, 2020 - Max Symmes

August 1, 2020 - Max Smith

August 22, 2020 - Evelyn Goldberg

August 29, 2020 - Quinley Wise


September 12, 2020 - Lucas Bader

October 24, 2020 - Jordan Devlin

October 31, 2020 - Ella Korin

Thu, April 9 2020 15 Nisan 5780