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Bar & Bat Mitzvah

Bar & Bat Mitzvah

Bar/bat mitzvah means son/daughter of the covenant. It usually occurs on or after the 13th birthday of a young person. At Havurah, we aim to help the bar/t mitzvah student feel that s/he is a true part of a community. One way of helping this to happen is the B’nai Mitzvah Committee requires a family to be a member of Havurah Shalom for three full consecutive years prior to their child’s bar/t mitzvah.

Some may wonder about such a requirement, especially if it causes a delay in the bar/t mitzvah until the youth may be in her/his mid-teens. However, we believe it takes a foundation of time in order to build strong community ties and create significant relationships. If you’ve ever been to a bar/t mitzvah at Havurah Shalom, you can witness the difference. The bar/t mitzvah is a significant event in the life of a young person. Religiously, they are a new young adult, and are responsible for their moral actions. They also take their place of responsibility in the Jewish community by participating in Shabbat Services. Havurah’s recognition of the significance of this event solidify’s our commitment to avoid “drive-thru” bar/t mitzvahs. We hope you will visit us and see the difference for yourself!

Resources

B’nai Mitzvah Workshops

B’nai/B’not Mitzvah Date Selection Workshop

Gather with other parents, Rabbi Joey, and the B’nai Mitzvah Committee, to consider what this life-cycle process means to your family, and learn about becoming a B’nai/B’not Mitzvah in the Havurah community. You will receive information about selecting a Shabbat date for your child’s Bar/Bat Mitzvah.

Navigating the Shabbat Morning Service for B’nai/B’not Mitzvah Families

Roger Brewer will lead families through the structure and meaning of the service and discuss how each family makes decisions about the service that they will help shape.

Drash Writing for B'nai/B'not Mitzvah Families

Writing a drash is one of the most important parts of Bat/Bar Mitzvah preparation. In this workshop, you will study a passage of Torah, discover a commentary, pose an interesting question and relate it to your contemporary context.

Getting Down to Tachlis (the Nitty Gritty) For Grades 6–8 B’nai/B’not Mitzvah Families

The logistics of planning, celebration, invitations and set-up will be addressed by Rachel Palmer and members of the B’nai Mitzvah Committee. This workshop is offered twice during the year.

Whose Bar or Bat Mitzvah is it Anyway?

How do parents with ranging degrees of familiarity with and/or attachment to Jewish
tradition navigate planning a Bar or Bat Mitzvah? How do they create a meaningful
experience for their teen? Led by Deborah Eisenbach-Budner & Laura Orgel.

Please check our online calendar for upcoming workshops.

B'nai Mitzvah Schedule 2017

January 14 - Owen Jablonski

January 28 - Jasmine Ilsley

March 18 - Jesse Litwin

March 25 - Audrey Landau

April 1 - Beryl Eisenberg

April 29 - Lirit Miller

June 10 - Matreya Barnett

June 17 - Maia Goldberg

July 8 - Isaac Kerstetter

July 22 - Miles Smith

August 5 - Jacob Wice-Budner

October 28 - Ari Mesulam

December 16 - Moriah Cordova

Thu, 30 March 2017 3 Nisan 5777