Anti-Racism & Belonging
Anti-Racism and Belonging
While Havurah is a wonderful and welcoming community, we shouldn’t assume that we are immune from the racism that is woven into the fabric of our society and is certainly present within predominantly white Jewish communities. The workgroup's goal is to embed anti-racist work throughout Havurah to support the alignment of our actions, beliefs, and values with our identity as a multi-racial, multi-ethnic, multi-cultural community, so that all members, and especially our members who identify as BIPOC (Black, Indigenous, and People of Color), can show up as their authentic selves, be heard, valued, and appreciated, and have a sense of belonging.
We invite all Havurah members to embark with us in small group conversations to gain a better understanding of how anti-racism and belonging shows up within our congregation. All conversation groups are structured by self-selected shared identity and are led by Havurah consultants Tabitha and Adam St. Bernard-Jacobs. For a schedule of the conversations and RSVP links, click here.
We are committed to:
- Centering the voices of BIPOC members in this work
- Acknowledging that harm has been done, and that it will take time and intentionality to build trust and repair/restore those connections
- Acknowledging that this is long-term, slow work, and that for us to make progress as a community, leadership needs to be visibly committed to the work, and we need to have the support of the broader community
- Being intentional about not replicating systems of oppression and white dominant/supremacist thinking and ways of being
Like most organizations in this country, some of Havurah's current structures may be based in white dominant patterns, thinking, and ways of being that knowingly and unknowingly perpetuate inequities or contribute to patterns of exclusion and harm. For this reason, we have chosen to be a workgroup instead of a committee, so we can have the time and space to explore models of collective organizing that honor and uplift diverse ways of working together.
Members of the Anti-Racism and Belonging Workgroup include Michael Anderson-Nathe, Rabbi Benjamin Barnett, Bob Brown, Chris Coughlin, Alanna Hein, Maria Lisa Johnson, and Karen St. Clair. Bob Brown and Chris Coughlin serve as points of contact. Please reach out to them with any questions.
We hope you have seen some of the Hakol articles about the Anti-Racism and Belonging work we are collectively launching.
If you missed previous Hakol articles about this work, you can find there here:
- Page 4 of the June 2022 Hakol
- Page 3 of the April 2022 Hakol
- Page 3 of the February 2022 Hakol
- Page 4 of the January 2022 Hakol
- Page 4 of the December 2021 Hakol
- Page 5 of the October 2021 Hakol
- Page 11 of the August 2021 Hakol
- Page 8 of the June 2021 Hakol
- Pages 1 and 8 of of the May 2021 Hakol
Launching Our Collective Work
Recognizing that talking about racism can be challenging, the Anti-Racism and Belonging Workgroup has engaged consultants to support our work. Tabitha and Adam St. Bernard-Jacobs will launch the first phase of our anti-racism work during 2022 by engaging in small group conversations with community members over the coming months to gather stories and data from members. More information about the small groups will be available soon.
A Message from Tabitha and Adam
We are honored to work with Havurah Shalom to gain a better understanding of how Havurah members view and approach anti-racism within the congregation. Our goal is to identify issues that encourage and/or hinder belonging among congregants, particularly BIPOC members. Ultimately we hope to identify guideposts for — and a path to — a more equitable community.
In partnership with the Anti-Racism and Belonging Workgroup, we will lead an information gathering process to help expand the vision and deepen the impact of this internally focused work. As part of the process, we will engage in small group conversations with congregants, providing opportunities for you to share your experiences as members and your hopes for the future. Learning from you as the experts of your own experiences will inform our recommendations.
The values that ground us include:
- A focus on relationship-building with the Havurah Shalom community
- Moving at the speed of these relationships
- Providing clarity while accepting a possible lack of conclusion
- Open communication
- A commitment to listening
We lean into the intentional and process-driven nature required of anti-racism work as we reject a quick, results-driven approach. We look forward to helping Havurah Shalom grow into the future with care, belonging, and kehillah (community).
About Tabitha and Adam
Tabitha St. Bernard-Jacobs (she/her) is a Trinidadian-American artist, organizer, and writer of Raising Anti-Racist Kids. She is the founder of Tabii Just Strategies, a consulting firm focused on dismantling racism and creating equitable systems with an approach that targets sustainable, long-term change. She is a member of Kolot Chayeinu’s Race Working Group. Tabitha is a founding organizer of Women’s March. She currently serves as a senior advisor after serving as Deputy Executive Director of Program. She also led the team that organized the historic 2018 National School Walkouts. Tabitha was recognized as one of Glamour Magazine’s 2017 Women of the Year, and one of 200 Women Who Will Change the Way You See the World (book). Tabitha is raising two kids with her favorite human, Adam.
Adam St. Bernard Jacobs (he/him) is a peace educator, nonprofit leader, and proud parent. He was the founding Executive Director of Kids Creative, an arts education program in NYC, and currently leads fundraising efforts at a national education nonprofit. He helped found an elementary school in the Bronx and sits on organizing committees working to dismantle white supremacy. Adam has co-led multiple white caucus groups in Jewish and non-Jewish spaces. He has degrees in International Politics, Peace Education, and Talmud and Rabbinics. He is also a children’s performer musician, performing as Mr. Clown in The Dirty Sock Funtime Band, and was a regular on Nick Jr.
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Upcoming Events
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Wednesday ,
MayMay 31 , 2023
Wednesday, May 31st 6:00p to 8:00p
We are holding two sessions of a community support safety briefing for Havurah members. The Wednesday, May 31 evening session will be hybrid. The Sunday, June 4 morning session will be held on Zoom only (Zoom Room Bet). Havurah members are invited to attend either session. -
Thursday ,
JunJune 1 , 2023
Thursday, Jun 1st 7:00p to 8:15p
Rabbi Benjamin will guide students and parents in responding to the text with their own questions and walk through the Shabbat morning service. -
Saturday ,
JunJune 3 , 2023
Shabbat, Jun 3rd 10:00a to 12:00p
Led by community members and Rabbi Benjamin, this service includes davening, Torah reading, and discussion. We meet in person and in Zoom Room Aleph. Please email Rachel for Zoom info: rachel@havurahshalom.org. -
Sunday ,
JunJune 4 , 2023
Sunday, Jun 4th 10:00a to 4:00p
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Sunday ,
JunJune 4 , 2023
Sunday, Jun 4th 11:00a to 12:30p
We are holding two sessions of a community support safety briefing for Havurah members. The Wednesday, May 31 evening session will be hybrid. The Sunday, June 4 morning session will be held on Zoom only (Zoom Room Bet). Havurah members are invited to attend either session. -
Sunday ,
JunJune 4 , 2023
Sunday, Jun 4th 5:00p to 7:00p
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Sunday ,
JunJune 4 , 2023
Sunday, Jun 4th 6:30p to 8:30p
Please join the Racial Justice Committee for a discussion of the movie Judas and the Black Messiah. (Please watch the film ahead of time; it's available on several platforms.) This is the second film in a series to commemorate Juneteenth. In the film, an FBI informant infiltrates the Black Panthers to keep tabs on its charismatic leader, Fred Hampton. Critics describe the movie as a offering insight into a man and a movement that has been overlooked far too long. Although it takes place in the late '60s, the movie is, unfortunately, very relevant today. -
Monday ,
JunJune 5 , 2023
Monday, Jun 5th 1:00p to 4:00p
We are excited to bring mahjong back to Havurah. It is a fun, social activity that builds community, encouraging new friendships and cementing old ones. And while some of us may play elsewhere as well, we all agreed that restoring its place as an ongoing congregational activity will be a good fit for Havurah and those of us who play or want to learn the game. So please don't hesitate to join us! -
Monday ,
JunJune 5 , 2023
Monday, Jun 5th 5:00p to 6:00p
Please join Havurah Climate Action Team for ongoing discussion of how to face the climate crisis. We will read "I Want a Better Catastrophe, Navigating the Climate Crisis with Grief, Hope, and Gallows Humor," by Andrew Boyd. Through interviews with prominent climate scientists, indigenous teachers, and sociologists, Andrew Boyd takes us through the process of looking squarely at the crisis we are in, feeling our emotions, and using them to power our response to the climate crisis. Open to members and non-members. Discussions will follow the book. One need not attend all the discussions. For questions, reach out to Michael Heumann or Harriet Cooke. RSVP for updates. -
Monday ,
JunJune 5 , 2023
Monday, Jun 5th 6:00p to 8:00p
A course for transforming our antiracism efforts through Jewish spiritual practice. Facilitated by Rabbi Benjamin and María Lisa Johnson Learn concrete Jewish spiritual tools alongside other Havurah members to confront, subvert, and heal implicit and internalized racism within ourselves and others. This course explores the inner work necessary to change our habits of mind, body, and spirit to dismantle racism, in support of whatever organizing, advocacy, and service-work we’re each engaged in. Our core spiritual practice will be Mussar, the Jewish spiritual discipline designed to integrate what the head understands with what the heart feels through daily practice. Participants will be expected to attend every session (as much as possible) and commit to consistent practice in between sessions, including meeting with a learning partner once every other week. This is not an antiracism 101 course, but rather is intended to build on an existing antiracism foundation, so participants need to have an understanding of systemic racism in the United States. Please contact Rabbi Benjamin if you are interested in participating.