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B'nei Mitzvah

Having a B'nei Mitzvah is an experience in community. It is a statement that one is now ready to participate in the Jewish community as an adult. Havurah Shalom is built upon the active participation of all its members. We believe in passing on Jewish tradition to our children while continuing to learn ourselves.

In order to be true to these beliefs, the congregation requires timely active membership prior to this important family life cycle passage of is B’nei Mitzvah. A period of membership provides the opportunity for new member families to become part of the Havurah community so their child comes of age in an ongoing community and the family is held in this life passage.

Though this may delay the bar or bat mitzvah until the young person is in his or her mid-teens, we believe it takes a foundation of time in order to build strong community ties and create significant relationships. A B'nei Mitzvah is a significant event in the life of a young person. Religiously, B'nei Mitzvah are responsible for their moral actions. They also take their place of responsibility in the Jewish community by participating in Shabbat Services.

B’nei Mitzvah Workshops for 2021

Whose B'nei Mitzvah Is It Anyway?
Tuesday, April 20, 7:00-8:30pm
Parents explore the hopes and fears that inspire, inform and complicate the planning process. Led by Deborah Eisenbach-Budner and Laura Orgel, psychologist and child/family therapist.

Drash Workshop
Tuesday, June 1,
7:00-8:30pm
In this workshop, Rabbi Benjamin will guide students and parents in responding to the text with our own questions and learning how to craft a drash that connects Torah to our lives.

Please check our online calendar to confirm the above dates and times.

Resources

  • B’nei Mitzvah Handbook  (PDF, updated May 2020)
  • Additional Guidelines (PDF) for when your bar/bat mitzvah falls on a Shabbat School date
  • Tutors & Musicians: For a current list, contact Rachel in the Havurah office at 503-248-4662 ext. 2.

Saturday Morning

Who Should I Contact?

Membership

Brad Pector, Communications & Membership Coordinator, brad@havurahshalom.org

B'nei Mitzvah Date Selection or Changes

Amanda Coffey & Constance Plager, B'nei Mitzvah Committee co-chairs

Tutors & Musicians

Rabbi Benjamin Barnett, benjamin.barnett@havurahshalom.org

Facility Use & Logistics

Rachel Pollak, Facilities & Office Manager, rachel@havurahshalom.org

Mitzvah Project

Laura Orgel, B'nei Mitzvah Committee member

Questions Related to Family Dynamics & Learning Needs

Deborah Eisenbach-Budner, Education Director, deborah@havurahshalom.org
Rabbi Benjamin Barnett, benjamin.barnett@havurahshalom.org
 

 

B'nei Mitzvah Schedule

Click here to see our 2020-2021 B'nei Mitzvah schedule (login required).

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